If the lovers might be as free with each other unclothed as clothed; if they are going to utterly ignore all conventionalities, and do with and for one another something and every part that their impulses and inclinations suggest, or their desires prompt; if they’ll, with the utmost abandon give themselves up to petting each other in each doable method that mom nature has put inside their reach; if they are going to hug and kiss and “spoon” and “play with each other” just as they want to do-if they are going to do that, and never hurry about it-then, sooner or later, they may efficiently execute the primary act of the good play they are performing; the intercourse organs will grow to be totally prepared for the union they are both longing for; the “prostate movement” will have added to the erect condition of the penis; the partitions of the vagina and all the world of the vulva shall be enlarged, smooth, flexible and made easy and slippery by a most generous supply of the “pre-coital secretion” and every thing will be in excellent readiness for the subsequent a part of the efficiency, particularly the union of the organs. The Rottweiler is to be exhibited within the pure condition with no trimming.
And the thing for them to do is to avail themselves of such natural impulse, just as quickly as potential. There is another reason why, on the part of lady, this time needs to be extended, particularly when she is a bride and inexperienced in these matters, and that is, that her “innocence,” and all her schooling, make her feel that she is doing improper, or at the very least permitting a unsuitable factor to be finished, and this holds again the correct progress of her ardour, hinders the tumescence of her intercourse organs, delays the circulate of the precoital secretion, and so keeps her from turning into correctly ready for her share of the mutual act. The clitoris is a gland that is positioned ahead, on the upper part of the vulva. The vaginal walls include significantly fewer nerve endings than the clitoris (which has many nerve endings specifically supposed for orgasm), and therefore intense sexual pleasure, together with orgasm, from vaginal sexual stimulation is less likely to occur than from direct clitoral stimulation in nearly all of ladies. Again, there are various married women and men who have no idea that it is possible for a woman to expertise an orgasm at all!
There are multitudes of “nervous” girls, hysterical even, who are restored to health, and kept in good health, by way of the stimulative results of satisfactory coitus and the absorption of semen, when both these things are present in perfection. Now the one easily understood (and as easily practiced as understood) path as to what to do by the use of preparation for the act of coitus is: do as lovers do when they’re “courting.” And everyone knows what that is! She knows how much pain she can endure, and when the pressure is just too exhausting she can relieve it by her personal action! The issue then presents itself: How can such deliberate and wilful determination of the number of children a husband and spouse might have, be brought about? These “do not care what the book says,” and, from the manner of their bringing up, from all they’ve discovered or heard by hearing men talk about married life, (which is normally of probably the most vulgar kind) they have come to the conclusion that marriage confers upon the parties the fitting to have interaction in sexual commerce at will; and, particularly, that the husband has the suitable to the physique of his wife whenever he chooses.
During the entire extent of married life, never neglect, much much less overlook to be lovers, and to indicate, by all your acts, that you are lovers, and nice shall be your reward. It is thought that such ceremony makes certain acts right which would in any other case be wrong, and that it establishes the suitable to have interaction in such acts, with or with none further session or consent within the premises. Right here is the place ninety-nine one-hundredths of all of the troubles of married life start! Now many younger husbands, and some young wives, are wholly ignorant of the existence of the hymen, and of the troubles it could trigger at the second a part of the sexual act, in a first meeting. And so, on this a part of the act, the husband ought to take the utmost care to offer his spouse the complete and complete freedom to maneuver her hips as she chooses, and as a successful climax demands that she ought to. Within the position just described, if the spouse has her arms around her lover’s body and her heels in his knee-pockets, while he helps himself by his elbows and knees over and above her, resting none of his weight upon her, it is perfectly easy for her to carry her hips up and down, or sway them from side to facet, or swing them in a circling “round-and-spherical” motion, as she might choose to do.